Some women may think that it is selfish not to have a date spot in mind for the person that they are going out with.There is a reason why you are going out on your first date; to get to know each other.If you are uncomfortable in the spots that you are choosing because you think that your date will enjoy them, you are setting yourself up for disaster.Since you are choosing the spot make it a place where you love to go.Going out on your first lesbian date is an exciting and memorable event in your life.

You always want to be yourself as much as you can on your first date.Here are just a few ideas but definitely feel free to add to this list: — Bowling: It’s nice and physical (see “Stay Active,” below), and everyone basically knows how.— Concert: Provides something to talk about afterwards.If you have a special talent, you can always teach or share your passion.During the summer, going out to the tennis courts could be a lot of fun, to teach your date how to play and hit the ball back and forth a few times. Being active on a date does a lot of positive things for you.