The ABA and his white buddy might both be longing for that cute blond girl next door, but that cute blond girl is going to look at the buddy more often than the ABA.
It boils down to the fact that most white girls don’t even think about Asian men when they picture a ‘datable’ guy.
Changes that could be made instead of being introverted and passive excessively in personality become a little more extroverted.
Point number one is quite simply this: White girls don’t want us.
This might seem at first to be a ludicrous complaint: after all, isn’t it ‘natural’ for white girls to want white guys, and white guys to want white girls? They might give it names they think are clever like "having the Yellow Fever" or "being rice-ist".
The Asian guy they know is a nice guy, is polite, can help them with their math homework – but is never somebody they would fantasize about wining and dining them.
Again, critics will say immediately that it’s only natural for white girls to want white guys. Plenty of white girls are into, say, Latino men as much as (or even more than) white guys.