While a dating partner may not welcome this news, it at least can minimize later disappointments.
You seem to be focusing on doing the so-called “right” thing because you want to make men happy. When you value yourself, a good guy will value all of you. Have sex only when you feel ready, NOT when you feel pressured.
She also says the conversation, like the primping, should happen at the same time -- before that big date.
"Think about your sexual boundaries before you've had that first drink," Mc Clary advises.
Once you've decided what you want out of a date, say experts, you should make it part of your regular dating rules to tell your partner.
"If you just want a one-night stand, you owe it to your partner to tell them 'it's just sex I'm after,'" Mc Clary tells Web MD.